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Sexual Abuse Survivor Speaks Out Against 'Golden Boy' Restaurant Manager Jailed for Child Rape
A sexual abuse survivor has described years of ordeal at the hands of Richard Tung, a respected restaurant manager dubbed the âgolden boyâ of his local community.
Tung, 42, of Penisaâr Waun, Gwynedd, ran Fuâs Restaurant in Caernarfon, Wales. He was jailed for 12 years last month after a jury convicted him of seven sexual offences against a boy, including two counts of raping a child under 13. He was also found guilty of two counts of sexual activity with a child, two counts of causing or inciting a child to engage in sexual activity, and one count of indecent assault.
Tung is no longer connected to the restaurant and the offences were not linked to his work there.
The victim, now in his 20s and granted lifelong anonymity, told NorthWalesLive he was groomed by a man everyone trusted.
âHe would play games, he would let me use his mobile phone, everyone thought he was a lovely guy. They thought he could do no wrong so he was trusted,â the survivor said.
âI did not know it was wrong â until it suddenly came to me that âthis is not normalâ. I tried to fight him off but he was bigger than me, stronger than me.â
He added: âHe was a âgolden boyâ, everyone loved him, it would be my word against his.â
The victim said he clearly remembers confronting his abuser: âI told him âthis is the last time you are doing this to meâ and it was the last time.â
For a decade he blamed himself. âFrom 14 to 24 I blamed myself. I thought it was my fault, it damaged me so much â anxiety, PTSD, depression, struggling to sleep. I was in and out of counselling therapy.â
He first disclosed the abuse at 19 to an ex-boyfriend, then to his sister at 21. âShe believed me, she was there for me but I did not want to go to the police,â he said. In his mid-20s he told his current partner and the rest of his family. He reported the crimes to police in 2022.
Tung denied everything at trial but was convicted earlier this year. âHe denied everything, but I remembered everything,â the survivor said.
Through extensive therapy the man no longer blames himself. âIt is not my fault and knowing that has healed me. Now there is justice â I finally know he has not got away with it.
âMy other motivation was to protect others. I needed to say something because no-one suspected he could do this. If I did nothing he could do it to others.â
In his victim personal statement read at Nottingham Crown Court, he described the lasting impact:
âMy life has been significantly impacted because of the abuse. Iâm still very vigilant because Iâm scared of potential danger. Itâs so tiring because Iâm scanning people all the time to see if Iâm safe.
âI donât like being alone. Iâm scared of being left at home at night and I run from room to room because Iâm scared someone is going to hurt me. My anxiety is still present and I overthink things a lot.â
Of the trial itself he said: âHaving to reopen everything and relive memories was uncomfortable. I hate seeing his face as it makes my skin crawl, but in court I made sure I looked at him.
âThe whole trial was so emotionally draining and stressful. The worst week of my life. Waiting for the verdict was so much because I wanted someone to validate my abuse â I wasnât crazy.â