Locations
Airdrie, North Lanarkshire, ML6
Description
A care worker engaged in sexual activity with a vulnerable man she was supposed to be looking after.
Megan Neilson, 28, was appointed to support the 29-year-old who suffers from cerebral palsy as well as epilepsy and also has a learning disability.
The pair quickly struck up a close bond which led to them both declaring that they loved each other.
Neilson repeatedly kissed and cuddled him during trips to a bowling alley and at Strathclyde Park while she later performed a sex act on him as they sat in a car parked at the Falkirk Wheel.
Their improper relationship came to light after the pair turned up hand-in-hand at his dad's house and told him they were together.
Neilson told the sickened father she would resign from her role as a support worker but police were called in.
When officers arrived at her home, Neilson asked: "Is this about the inappropriate relationship?"
Neilson, of Airdrie, Lanarkshire, denied any wrongdoing between June and August 2022 and went on trial at Hamilton Sheriff Court.
But jurors took an hour to convict her of engaging in sexual activity with the man while being a person who provided care services to him.
Jurors were shown a police interview with the man where he told them how he believed he was in a relationship with Neilson and described sexual acts between them.
He said: "She said if anybody found out about us she would lose her job, her daughter and her college course.
"I felt awkward because this had never happened to me before."
When asked how he felt about telling his parents and the police about Neilson, he replied: "I feel as if I made her a promise and broke it."
His dad told the court he had been 'suspicious' of the pair before they told him they were together.
He said: "They said 'we've something to tell you, we are in a relationship' and it took a while for it to sink in what was being said.
"I questioned Megan that it would be so wrong because she was one of his carers and she said 'I'm going to leave anyway so it will be fine'.
"I was in shock but then realised my suspicion was confirmed that there was something going on and I had this sickly feeling because it was a major breach of trust by the support worker working with him.
"He is still not the same wee laddie."
The court was also shown messages sent from Neilson to the man.
One said: "I love you. If it means losing everything, that's fine."
She then told him: "Delete this mind."
Neilson denied any sexual contact between the pair but said she resigned from her support role after developing an 'emotional relationship' with him.
The mum-of-two added: "I'm not sure why he has said this, it was maybe because he couldn't be with me but I can't get my head round it.
"I feel terrible, it has affected me really really badly and it has given me a lot of anxiety but there was nothing sexual between me and him."
Depute fiscal Lewis Devoy told jurors Neilson had committed a 'gross breach of trust' and said the man had 'no reason' to lie.
Lewis Kennedy, defence advocate, told the jury: "Her position is really straightforward and that is she was only involved in an emotional relationship with the complainer and that it was never sexual."
Sheriff Linda Nicolson deferred sentence on the first offender until next month for reports and continued her bail.
She added: "You have been found guilty by the jury of this charge which is obviously very serious."
Neilson, who is now unemployed, was placed on the sex offenders' register.